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The new balancing act: Midlife adults are now caring for their kids and aging parents
By 7 a.m., the house is already in overdrive. Lunches are packed, emails are waiting, and between drop-offs and deadlines, there’s another call to make, this one for Mom’s doctor. For millions of Americans in their 40s and 50s, this is daily life as part of the Sandwich Generation, balancing kids, careers, and caregiving.
And now, with Medicare open enrollment underway through Dec. 7, that balancing act is even more complicated. Many midlife parents are managing not just their own and their children’s health coverage but also guiding aging parents through complex medical and financial decisions.
A new survey from AmeriLife, an insurance and financial services organization, finds that 3 in 5 midlife adults now manage at least part of a parent’s healthcare. Many say that includes reviewing insurance options, handling medical bills, and navigating Medicare choices that have become increasingly complex.
Caregivers Caught in the Middle
Nearly two in three respondents said they often or always feel like their parents’ healthcare manager, while more than half report moderate to high stress from helping aging loved ones navigate medical or financial paperwork. The emotional weight is significant, and it does not just affect free time. Many said their caregiving duties have made it harder to focus at work or keep up with their own families’ needs.
When asked what is more stressful, helping kids with homework or helping parents with healthcare paperwork, most chose their parents’ paperwork. The daily mental load of juggling both ends of family life is leaving many stretched thin.
The time commitment is just as demanding. Nearly 4 in 5 respondents said caring for a parent has required them to take time off work or adjust their schedules, and two-thirds said it has affected their overall work-life balance. The overlap between professional and personal responsibilities leaves many feeling they’re falling behind on both fronts.
Confusion Around Medicare Choices
For those trying to help parents enroll or adjust Medicare plans, confidence is low. More than 2 in 5 said they would feel totally lost trying to explain the differences in Medicare plans, and many compare the process to major life decisions, like buying a house.
Most caregivers rely on online searches or family advice rather than licensed professionals when making these decisions, often leading to more confusion and second-guessing.
Matthew Centi, managing partner at Tampa-based Healthcare Solutions, an independent agency that helps seniors review and select coverage options, said he sees this kind of frustration every day. “People just want to help their parents make the right choice, but it can feel overwhelming to sort through so many options. A little guidance can make a big difference in helping families feel confident about the decisions they are making,” he said.
That sentiment echoes the survey findings, which showed that many caregivers are not confident their parents are enrolled in the best plan for their needs, underscoring how complex and confusing the process can be.
The Strain Extends Beyond Time
The demands of caregiving often come with a financial cost. Many respondents said they have cut back on personal spending, including their own retirement contributions, to help cover parents’ healthcare or living expenses. Others reported spending hundreds of dollars each month from their household budgets on their parents’ needs.
In fact, 3 in 5 said they now spend more each month supporting parents than they do on dining out, streaming services, or childcare.
Seeking Trusted Guidance
Despite these challenges, most say they would feel more confident with access to professional guidance and reliable support to help families navigate the uncertainties of caregiving.
For the Sandwich Generation, the reality is clear. They are doing double duty, keeping their families on track while trying to stay afloat themselves.
This story was produced by AmeriLife and reviewed and distributed by Stacker.
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The new balancing act: Midlife adults are now caring for their kids and aging parents
By 7 a.m., the house is already in overdrive. Lunches are packed, emails are waiting, and between drop-offs and deadlines, there’s another call to make, this one for Mom’s doctor. For millions of Americans in their 40s and 50s, this is daily life as part of the Sandwich Generation, balancing kids, careers, and caregiving.
And now, with Medicare open enrollment underway through Dec. 7, that balancing act is even more complicated. Many midlife parents are managing not just their own and their children’s health coverage but also guiding aging parents through complex medical and financial decisions.
A new survey from AmeriLife, an insurance and financial services organization, finds that 3 in 5 midlife adults now manage at least part of a parent’s healthcare. Many say that includes reviewing insurance options, handling medical bills, and navigating Medicare choices that have become increasingly complex.
Caregivers Caught in the Middle
Nearly two in three respondents said they often or always feel like their parents’ healthcare manager, while more than half report moderate to high stress from helping aging loved ones navigate medical or financial paperwork. The emotional weight is significant, and it does not just affect free time. Many said their caregiving duties have made it harder to focus at work or keep up with their own families’ needs.
When asked what is more stressful, helping kids with homework or helping parents with healthcare paperwork, most chose their parents’ paperwork. The daily mental load of juggling both ends of family life is leaving many stretched thin.
The time commitment is just as demanding. Nearly 4 in 5 respondents said caring for a parent has required them to take time off work or adjust their schedules, and two-thirds said it has affected their overall work-life balance. The overlap between professional and personal responsibilities leaves many feeling they’re falling behind on both fronts.
Confusion Around Medicare Choices
For those trying to help parents enroll or adjust Medicare plans, confidence is low. More than 2 in 5 said they would feel totally lost trying to explain the differences in Medicare plans, and many compare the process to major life decisions, like buying a house.
Most caregivers rely on online searches or family advice rather than licensed professionals when making these decisions, often leading to more confusion and second-guessing.
Matthew Centi, managing partner at Tampa-based Healthcare Solutions, an independent agency that helps seniors review and select coverage options, said he sees this kind of frustration every day. “People just want to help their parents make the right choice, but it can feel overwhelming to sort through so many options. A little guidance can make a big difference in helping families feel confident about the decisions they are making,” he said.
That sentiment echoes the survey findings, which showed that many caregivers are not confident their parents are enrolled in the best plan for their needs, underscoring how complex and confusing the process can be.
The Strain Extends Beyond Time
The demands of caregiving often come with a financial cost. Many respondents said they have cut back on personal spending, including their own retirement contributions, to help cover parents’ healthcare or living expenses. Others reported spending hundreds of dollars each month from their household budgets on their parents’ needs.
In fact, 3 in 5 said they now spend more each month supporting parents than they do on dining out, streaming services, or childcare.
Seeking Trusted Guidance
Despite these challenges, most say they would feel more confident with access to professional guidance and reliable support to help families navigate the uncertainties of caregiving.
For the Sandwich Generation, the reality is clear. They are doing double duty, keeping their families on track while trying to stay afloat themselves.
This story was produced by AmeriLife and reviewed and distributed by Stacker.
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We’re in the midst of Oz-mania, as Wicked: For Good hits theaters, bringing the musical epic to a conclusion. Will Cynthia Erivo and Ariana Grande get Oscar nominations? We’ll have to wait and see, but certainly, both actresses will forever have an association with the characters Elphaba and Glinda. And Wicked has especially resonated with young girls. In a video from BBC Radio 1, Cynthia visits her old high school in the U.K., and the current students go absolutely nuts when she arrives. After the kids stop squealing with delight, they ask Cynthia questions, and of course, ask her to sing. You can watch the full video of Cynthia Erivo’s visit to her alma mater below:
The BBC reporter shows Cynthia several old photos of herself as a teenage student. Back then, she was in plays like Guys and Dolls, Bugsy Malone, and My Fair Lady. She then surprises students who are rehearsing “For Good” from Wicked, and they ask her several questions. One of them asks what the most rewarding moment of her stardom has been thus far. The two-time Oscar nominee says this very moment, standing before the girls in her old school, is the most rewarding. Getting to impart her experience to the next generation is what it’s all about.
Of course, the most tear-jerking moments of the video is when Cynthia herself joins the kids in singing “For Good.” This was after one girl bluntly asked her, “Will you sing?” Luckily, she obliges her. The song “For Good” in any context is one that can elicit tears no matter what. But hearing Cynthia Erivo sing it with the young girls who have the same hopes and dreams she did as a teenager, standing where she once stood? Yeah, you try not to get misty-eyed watching that. We here at Nerdist didn’t stand a chance.
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Earlier this month, creatives, tastemakers, and industry leaders gathered at “The Toast, New York,” an exclusive, intimate dinner experience presented by Candis Grace celebrating culture, excellence, and legacy.
Held at The Chica & Don in downtown Manhattan on Nov. 6, guests were treated to modern Latin American cuisine paired with drinks provided by Black-owned spirit brands like Sean “Jay-Z” Carter’s D’usse, Kevin Hart’s Gran Coramino, and Ja Rule’s Amber & Opal.
Presented by entrepreneur Candis Grace in partnership with UBS, “The Toast, New York” honored three trailblazers making significant strides in their respective industries: Carlos King, the CEO of Kingdom Reign Entertainment and an acclaimed reality TV show producer, sports broadcast journalist Cari Champion, and Santi Miller, Head of Diverse Wealth Initiatives at UBS.
“I was at ESPN for 10 years, and now I’m at CNN, and I am unapologetic in the fact that my agenda is for Black and brown people [and] for women,” said Champion, a former anchor on ESPN’s First Take, while accepting The Champion of Women in Sports Award. “It’s costly and sometimes scary, but I know that when it is all said and done, if you look in the history books, I’m doing it for the right reasons.”
“It is not every day that I get celebrated because, being behind the scenes, it’s our job to celebrate others, said King, while receiving the Cultural Storyteller Award.
Former NFL player Wale Ogunleye, who currently serves as Executive Director, Head of Sports and Entertainment at UBS, presented Miller with The Legacy Builder Award.
“With the current state of politics that we’re in, it’s super interesting to say words like ‘diversity’ and all these other things. But, that being said, UBS decided in January to continue to forge ahead with our diversity initiatives led by Santi,” said the former Miami Dolphins MVP. “I’ve had the honor of working with Santi this year, as she’s been a great partner to me in the sports entertainment business. Her work focuses on expanding the firm’s presence in diverse markets and ensuring that UBS shows up in ways that are authentic, relevant, and deeply connected to communities it serves.”
During her acceptance speech, Miller shared how her upbringing and feeling ostracized at times influenced her commitment to empowering diverse communities.
“I was born in Vietnam, and I was always the other,” she said. “I thought about it, I was like, why is this so important? Why am I so passionate about diversity? Why do I care about it? And it really is about taking this sense of being an other. And every single person in this room has been an other. I know you have it. The higher you climb, the lonelier it gets. And, guess what? The dots get smaller and the target gets bigger,” she continued.
In addition to recognizing these cultural pioneers, “The Toast, New York” brought together a collective of notable activists, authors, and reality stars in an atmosphere that embraced community, collaboration, and Black excellence. Noted attendees included Roc Nation veteran and music business executive Lenny S. Santiago, Real Housewives of Miami star Guerdy Abraira, media personality Bevy Smith, former VIBE Editor-in-Chief Datwon Thomas, and social justice advocate Tamika D. Mallory.
“This event was an idea to celebrate my friends that probably were really behind the scenes, but really making the moves, because that’s how I was always in my career,” said Grace, the founder and CEO of The Brand Group, a marketing, brand partnerships, and public relations agency based in Los Angeles.
“I was an [event] promoter –- the only woman promoter in Hollywood for a long time in my career. So, I don’t like anything stuffy,” she told guests. “I like it to feel really unorthodox, beautiful, sexy, and vibey, so everybody can have fun. So, that’s why [this] is not a stuffy awards.”
Jeffrey Morneau, the founder of Jeffrey Morneau Atelier, a luxury brand specializing in event planning, bespoke design, and elevated catering experiences, said partnering with Grace to produce an event that celebrates Black excellence was a joy.
“[Candis’] vision and commitment to uplifting our community made this collaboration especially meaningful, he said in a statement. “Together, we’re creating an experience that celebrates excellence, and I couldn’t be more proud,” he said.
Candis launched The Brand Group nearly two decades ago and has worked with the likes of the National Basketball Players Association, United Nations, Kevin Hart, Netflix, Doritos, and UBS, which she praised for supporting her annual events.
“UBS has been an invaluable partner throughout this incredible journey from ‘Toast to Black Hollywood‘ and now to ‘The Toast, New York.” Their continued commitment and belief in our vision have been instrumental, and we deeply value the partnership we’ve built together,” she said in a statement.
Grace also acknowledged the support of BLACK ENTERPRISE, which served as a media partner at the event and honored her with the 2024 Business Disruptor Award.
“Black Enterprise has been an integral part of my journey from the very beginning. They’ve not only championed ‘The Toast, New York,’ but they’ve been there to celebrate every milestone and event throughout my career,” she said. “Their support and commitment to uplifting our community means everything to me, and I’m incredibly grateful to have them as partners in this work.”
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