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This year, Black authors gave us some of the most illuminating and one-of-a-kind stories. From debut authors to those who are well-seasoned, I’ve gathered my 10 picks of the best books by Black authors this year to add to your reading list and give as gifts.

Chain-Gang All-Stars, by Nana Kwame Adjei-Brenyah

A dystopian parody in which death-row inmates duel on TV for a chance at freedom, Adjei-Brenyah’s debut novel pulls the reader in, making us complicit with the bloodthirsty fans sitting ringside. As much as this book makes you laugh, you feel disturbed at the fact that it does. Nonetheless, you can’t stop reading. It’s also amid a love story between the two top competitors who are forced to choose between each other and freedom.

The Fraud, by Zadie Smith

Based on a celebrated 19th-century criminal trial in which the defendant was accused of impersonating a nobleman, Smith’s novel successfully taps into the social controversies of an era. Among them are a widowed Scottish housekeeper who avidly follows the trial and a formerly enslaved Jamaican servant who testifies on behalf of the claimant. Smith is a talented novelist, and she gives us the culture of the time while reflecting on whose stories are told and whose are overlooked.

The Heaven & Earth Grocery Store, by James McBride

The National Book Award-winning author of The Good Lord Bird sets this energetic novel in a dilapidated Pennsylvania neighborhood before and during the Great Depression. There, Black and Jewish residents come together to hide an orphan from state officials who want to send the boy to a terrible institution. Sometimes, these circumstances provide a sad story, but this is a book by James McBride. Vitality and humor are the foundation of this stories, even in the midst of despair.

How to Say Babylon, by Safiya Sinclair

Born in a seaside Jamaican village near Montego Bay, Sinclair grew up in a strict Rastafarian family. She wanted more than the Rasta wifedom that was mapped out for her, and in her memoir, she chronicles how she threw off that yoke. Doing so risked the wrath of her father, a reggae musician who feared that corrupting Western influences would ruin his daughter. Sinclair is one of my favorite poets, and the book grabs you with the beauty of her words.

The Life and Times of Hannah Crafts: The True Story of the Bondwoman’s Narrative by Gregg Hecimovich

In 2001, the professor and literary scholar Henry Louis Gates Jr. purchased a novel of unknown authorship at an auction. He verified that it was authentic and had probably been written by a Black person before 1860. It was published to wide acclaim as The Bondwoman’s Narrative. With academics Gates and Gregg Hecimovich acting as editors, the book tells the incredible story of Hannah Crafts, the woman who wrote it, and of the efforts to discover her identity and reconstruct her trajectory. It is part thriller, part mystery, and part biography.

Maame by Jessica George

Families can be complicated. Twenty-five-year-old Madeleine “Maddie” Wright’s family is no different, and she is struggling. The daughter of Ghanaian immigrants settled in London, Maddie, working a dead-end administrative job, is responsible for the care of her father, who has advanced stage Parkinson’s disease. Her mother, who alternates between Ghana and London, is constantly critical of Maddie, but this does not stop her from guilting Maddie into shouldering the greater part of all financial responsibilities. Maame is her mother’s nickname for Maddie. In their native Twi, it means woman; the responsible one. As Maddie reflects on her life, she shares how she feels this nickname has somehow defined her, has determined how she is perceived by her family members, and has influenced not only how she interacts with others but also how she treats herself.

Quietly Hostile: Essays by Samantha Irby

Irby’s take on being 40+ in today’s culture is hilarious. If you’ve ever wondered about stupid things out loud, then this book is just the kind of stuff Irby describes. So, I burst out laughing whenever she suggested something unusual, like her love of QVC, a bachelorette party at Red Lobster, or the time the store on her book tour got robbed during her talk and they told her to just keep going. It’s brilliant, funny writing.

Homebodies, by Tembe Denton Hurst

Mickey loves her job in media, and she loves writing. Even though she only gets to write 10% of the topics she pitches, she knows she’s in a great position. When she’s suddenly let go, she’s furious at herself, her boss, the industry, and the systems that do not serve her. In a fit of rage, she pens a detailed letter outlining all the things she endured as a Black woman in media, hoping to get some coverage. At the same time, Mickey’s relationship with her girlfriend of over five years starts to unravel. With so much going on, she decides to head back to her hometown to decide on what’s next in her life.

We Are a Haunting, by Tyriek White

This book follows three generations of New Yorkers over thirty years. Grandma Audrey lives in Brooklyn and is on the verge of losing her apartment. Before she passed, her daughter Key could speak to the dead. Key’s son Colly grieves his mother’s death and learns he has a similar gift, all while navigating a world filled with injustices. The writing in this debut novel is poetic. It’s more slice-of-life and focuses on moments of these characters’ lives. The timeline skips around with each point of view. It discusses a range of topics, including systemic issues and generational trauma.

What Never Happened, by Rachel Howzell Hall

Twenty years ago, Colette’s entire family was brutally murdered. She moved away as soon as she was able and made a name for herself as an award-winning obituary writer. Unfortunately, she has to return to Catalina Island to help care for her aging aunt and to get some distance from her ex. Luckily, the local paper is owned by her college bestie and she is actually the owner of the house where her aunt has always lived. The island has an aging population, which means there’s no shortage of obituaries to write. But why are all the deaths so similar?

All of these great reads are available wherever books are sold. Consider purchasing your books from Bookshop.org, a platform that gives independent bookstores tools to compete online and financial support to help them maintain their presence in local communities.

December 25, 2023

10 Best Books by Black Authors of 2023

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This year, Black authors gave us some of the most illuminating and one-of-a-kind stories. From debut authors to those who are well-seasoned, I’ve gathered my 10 picks of the best books by Black authors this year to add to your reading list and give as gifts.

Chain-Gang All-Stars, by Nana Kwame Adjei-Brenyah

A dystopian parody in which death-row inmates duel on TV for a chance at freedom, Adjei-Brenyah’s debut novel pulls the reader in, making us complicit with the bloodthirsty fans sitting ringside. As much as this book makes you laugh, you feel disturbed at the fact that it does. Nonetheless, you can’t stop reading. It’s also amid a love story between the two top competitors who are forced to choose between each other and freedom.

The Fraud, by Zadie Smith

Based on a celebrated 19th-century criminal trial in which the defendant was accused of impersonating a nobleman, Smith’s novel successfully taps into the social controversies of an era. Among them are a widowed Scottish housekeeper who avidly follows the trial and a formerly enslaved Jamaican servant who testifies on behalf of the claimant. Smith is a talented novelist, and she gives us the culture of the time while reflecting on whose stories are told and whose are overlooked.

The Heaven & Earth Grocery Store, by James McBride

The National Book Award-winning author of The Good Lord Bird sets this energetic novel in a dilapidated Pennsylvania neighborhood before and during the Great Depression. There, Black and Jewish residents come together to hide an orphan from state officials who want to send the boy to a terrible institution. Sometimes, these circumstances provide a sad story, but this is a book by James McBride. Vitality and humor are the foundation of this stories, even in the midst of despair.

How to Say Babylon, by Safiya Sinclair

Born in a seaside Jamaican village near Montego Bay, Sinclair grew up in a strict Rastafarian family. She wanted more than the Rasta wifedom that was mapped out for her, and in her memoir, she chronicles how she threw off that yoke. Doing so risked the wrath of her father, a reggae musician who feared that corrupting Western influences would ruin his daughter. Sinclair is one of my favorite poets, and the book grabs you with the beauty of her words.

The Life and Times of Hannah Crafts: The True Story of the Bondwoman’s Narrative by Gregg Hecimovich

In 2001, the professor and literary scholar Henry Louis Gates Jr. purchased a novel of unknown authorship at an auction. He verified that it was authentic and had probably been written by a Black person before 1860. It was published to wide acclaim as The Bondwoman’s Narrative. With academics Gates and Gregg Hecimovich acting as editors, the book tells the incredible story of Hannah Crafts, the woman who wrote it, and of the efforts to discover her identity and reconstruct her trajectory. It is part thriller, part mystery, and part biography.

Maame by Jessica George

Families can be complicated. Twenty-five-year-old Madeleine “Maddie” Wright’s family is no different, and she is struggling. The daughter of Ghanaian immigrants settled in London, Maddie, working a dead-end administrative job, is responsible for the care of her father, who has advanced stage Parkinson’s disease. Her mother, who alternates between Ghana and London, is constantly critical of Maddie, but this does not stop her from guilting Maddie into shouldering the greater part of all financial responsibilities. Maame is her mother’s nickname for Maddie. In their native Twi, it means woman; the responsible one. As Maddie reflects on her life, she shares how she feels this nickname has somehow defined her, has determined how she is perceived by her family members, and has influenced not only how she interacts with others but also how she treats herself.

Quietly Hostile: Essays by Samantha Irby

Irby’s take on being 40+ in today’s culture is hilarious. If you’ve ever wondered about stupid things out loud, then this book is just the kind of stuff Irby describes. So, I burst out laughing whenever she suggested something unusual, like her love of QVC, a bachelorette party at Red Lobster, or the time the store on her book tour got robbed during her talk and they told her to just keep going. It’s brilliant, funny writing.

Homebodies, by Tembe Denton Hurst

Mickey loves her job in media, and she loves writing. Even though she only gets to write 10% of the topics she pitches, she knows she’s in a great position. When she’s suddenly let go, she’s furious at herself, her boss, the industry, and the systems that do not serve her. In a fit of rage, she pens a detailed letter outlining all the things she endured as a Black woman in media, hoping to get some coverage. At the same time, Mickey’s relationship with her girlfriend of over five years starts to unravel. With so much going on, she decides to head back to her hometown to decide on what’s next in her life.

We Are a Haunting, by Tyriek White

This book follows three generations of New Yorkers over thirty years. Grandma Audrey lives in Brooklyn and is on the verge of losing her apartment. Before she passed, her daughter Key could speak to the dead. Key’s son Colly grieves his mother’s death and learns he has a similar gift, all while navigating a world filled with injustices. The writing in this debut novel is poetic. It’s more slice-of-life and focuses on moments of these characters’ lives. The timeline skips around with each point of view. It discusses a range of topics, including systemic issues and generational trauma.

What Never Happened, by Rachel Howzell Hall

Twenty years ago, Colette’s entire family was brutally murdered. She moved away as soon as she was able and made a name for herself as an award-winning obituary writer. Unfortunately, she has to return to Catalina Island to help care for her aging aunt and to get some distance from her ex. Luckily, the local paper is owned by her college bestie and she is actually the owner of the house where her aunt has always lived. The island has an aging population, which means there’s no shortage of obituaries to write. But why are all the deaths so similar?

All of these great reads are available wherever books are sold. Consider purchasing your books from Bookshop.org, a platform that gives independent bookstores tools to compete online and financial support to help them maintain their presence in local communities.


December 24, 2023

BGN’s Picks for the Worst Films of 2023

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There’s always some bad apples in a bunch, and this year there are some movies that were pretty awful. While we appreciate the time and effort it takes to craft and make a film production, sadly these films creatively just didn’t hit the mark. From big budget studio films to independent flicks, our select group of esteemed film critics provides a short list of movies that were pretty bad this year. 

Jamie Broadnax’s Worst of 2023

Five Nights at Freddy’s 

Sorry FNAF fans, but I had high hopes and expectations for this film since it’s inspired by the popular video game of the same name. Based on a game known for its horror and jump scares, the film completely erased the components of what made it appealing to gamers when adapting it for the big screen. Rather than focusing on the animatronic killers, the plot centered on its protagonist Mike (Josh Hutcherson) and his missing brother, which played out more like a melodrama than an actual horror flick.

The build up to ultimately finding out who the villain is felt rushed, and the pacing was all over the place. This movie had so much potential. But my opinion doesn’t matter here because it made a ton of money at the box office, in spite of it being released on streaming the same day. It’s likely there will be a sequel or maybe even a prequel in the works due to its financial success.

The Flash

Where do I begin? The Flash was in development hell for years and went through a bunch of directors before it fell into Andrés Muschietti’s hands. The writing was on the wall with this one. 

Let’s start with the fact that this movie should have never been released. With bad PR swirling around its lead actor Ezra Miller and his many run-ins with law enforcement, the film already had some negative publicity around it. 

Aside from that, some of the worst CGI I’ve ever seen is in this movie. And while the film’s director Andrés Muschietti had an excuse for this, it still doesn’t make sense that a film with a $300 million dollar budget has CGI that is comparable to a CW TV show.

There’s also so many plot holes in The Flash that I lost count. What is the motive for what happened to Barry’s mom? What purpose did Batman serve in this story? Why was Iris West even in this movie? She’s barely there and it’s pretty clear a lot of her narrative ended up on the cutting room floor. Unlike FNAF, this movie bombed and it bombed hard. 

Cassondra Feltus’ Worst of 2023

The Exorcist: Believer

I went in with low expectations so I wasn’t terribly disappointed. It’s a shame that it didn’t work because there are some impressive performances, particularly the two leading ladies who clearly gave it their all. It’s a serviceable horror film but as a legacy sequel, it just doesn’t hold up. 

Wayne Broadway’s Worst of 2023

Fast X 

Ugh. If I could just write “ugh” and present that as my review, I would. But I think I’d get in trouble with my boss, so let’s quickly go through why this “movie” is the worst of 2023. 

  1. It’s not a full film.
  2. It’s vaguely homophobic
  3. Do I really need a third reason? This movie is clearly terrible.

As far as Point 1 is concerned, this movie fails to be a movie in any meaningful sense by ending midway. It’s not even a matter of not liking cliffhangers. Across the Spider-Verse had a cliffhanger ending, and I loved it because that movie also resolved most of its own internal arcs. Despite it being part of a larger series, it still understood that it had to tell a complete story.

What Fast X does, on the other hand, is waste precious hours of audiences’ lives without providing any sort of resolution to walk away with. This movie is a book that ends mid-sentence in the second act and resents you for expecting more. “We gave you a car race, didn’t we?” it asks. “You didn’t think the eight-year-old boy blowing people up with a missile was cool?!” it says, shocked at our ingratitude. This non-film is idiotic dreck that would hardly even merit discussion, but then it went and decided to make its villain queer-coded like it’s still 1992, so it was impossible not to aim my contempt at it. 

Look, like what you like. The thing (I refuse to say “movie”) made nearly three-quarters of a billion dollars worldwide, so what do I know? Well, that question wasn’t rhetorical, because what I know is that this movie was perhaps the worst thing I had the displeasure of watching either this year or several others.

The Equalizer 3

I admit that I might regret putting this movie here, because, in truth, there certainly were worse 2023 films. The Meg 2 probably stunk (I didn’t watch it because I have a finite amount of time on this earth, and I refuse to spend it that annoyed). Saw X was good only in the sense that it wasn’t as bad as other Saw films. Beau Is Afraid might have made a better entry if only because its polarizing nature would have sparked discussion from anyone happy or upset with my choice to include it.

But The Equalizer 3 makes this list because it’s symbolic of wasted talent. How do you put Antoine Fuqua, Denzel Washington, and Dakota Fanning together and still leave me feeling apathetic? How do you do this especially after you show the promise of what the movie could have been based on its opening five minutes?

What could have been this year’s Black-led response to the John Wick franchise instead fizzles out to be a run-of-the-mill action film that sees Denzel Washington seem almost bored with the role. Maybe it’s best that this was likely his final outing as Robert McCall. Leave the work of making lackluster Bourne ripoffs to Fanning, another artist that could be off making something that mattered for longer than it took to sit down and watch the movie. “Worst” might be too harsh, but no one gave me the option for “Most Depressingly Below-Average Use of Otherwise Great Actors” list, so this will have to suffice.

Ant-Man and the Wasp: Quantumania 

Okay, Scorsese might have been onto something. For every Across the Spider-Verse that makes it easy to scoff at old-head talk of “back in my day we had real films,” there’s a Quantumania that ruins that rebuttal completely. In fact, there are way more Quantumaniatype films by ratio than there are works of art like Across the Spider-Verse. This matters specifically because this movie is everything you hoped the MCU would not become: completely without a coherent purpose.

Is it setting up Kang? Because if so, this Big Bad got beat up by Ant-Man of all people, so imagine how he’d fare against someone like Captain Marvel in the inevitable team-up film. Is it to establish the rules of how time travel works in the Quantum Realm and the MCU in general? Because, if so, I’m pretty sure Season 2 of Loki has different rules entirely. Is it to get us excited about the rest of Marvel’s Phase 5 and the upcoming Phase 6? Because, if recent box office receipts are any indication, no one is excited about much of anything to do with the MCU anymore.

Since every franchise everywhere is all at once obsessed with multiverses, I am envisioning one right now. In this one, the MCU films ended with that wonderful scene of Steve and Peggy dancing, their love realized and the important parts of the story told. Sure, there would be some loose ends, but those could be tied up in one or two limited series that would work to tell that story rather than simply sell merch or build excitement for a new themed addition to Disneyland. I would like this universe, and the only multi-verse project I’d like to see at this point is one about getting there.

The rest of it? Meh. If this review doesn’t seem specific enough to Quantumania, that’s because this film’s issues are mirrored across much of what’s problematic in the MCU now. If you liked Quantumania, fine. Pretend I put The Marvels or any one of the lackluster miniseries that came and went instead. It’s honestly all the dreary same, or, as Scorsese put it, all “market-researched, audience-tested, vetted, modified, revetted and remodified until they’re ready for consumption.”

Jeanine T. Abraham’s Worst of 2023

Best. Christmas. Ever!

Best. Christmas. Ever! is the perfect example of why many romantic comedy films get on my last nerves. Charlotte (Heather Graham, Boogie Nights) is a driven wife and mother of two whose life is less than perfect. Her husband, Rob (Jason Biggs, American Pie), has a business that isn’t going well. Every Christmas, Charlotte receives family newsletters from Rob’s ex-girlfriend from college, Jackie (Brandy Norwood, Moesha) who lives a perfect life in a mini-mansion with her incredibly hot husband Valentino (Matt Cedeno, Devious Maids), and their genius daughter Beatrix (Madison Skye Validum, Dashing Through the Snow). Charlotte’s life is a mess, hence, she’s jealous of Jackie and her perfect family. Charlotte, her husband, and her kids inadvertently end up at Jackie’s house on Christmas Eve, and the hijinks begin.  

This movie is predictable; the writing is abysmal; most of the actors seem like they are on autopilot; the kids are annoying; Brandy looks like she’s reading all of her lines off of a teleprompter; and Heather Graham looks like she’s a deer caught in headlights throughout most of the film. This movie could have been fun if the writers of this screenplay weren’t stuck in 1997. While I was watching this film, I was rewriting it in my mind, casting Charlotte as a “Christmas Karen” showing up at Brandy’s house with all of her envy and somehow making a journey of discovery to be less of a “Karen.” 

But no, this film places Black, white ,and Brown actors into roles that ignore cultural identity and the authentic conflicts that happen when Americans of different skin colors are in friendships with one another. Brandy is a pop star; her singing talent is wasted in this film. Why not use more of Brandy singing? Her song at the end was great.

The worst part of this film was that I didn’t like or care about anyone in this film. Even the kids. That’s not good for a feel-good Christmas film. At the end of the day, a holiday film should leave the audience feeling hopeful about the holidays; I just wanted to throw my Christmas stocking at the screen.

Best. Christmas. Ever! Streaming on Netflix.

Killers of the Flower Moon

Goodfellas is one of my favorite movies because Martin Scorsese writes what he knows and creates these layered, complex characters. We can feel the why behind the actions of almost everyone we see on screen because Scorsese comes from a place of human connection. He knows these wise guys and can humanize men who do the most deplorable things for money and power.

In Killers of the Flower Moon, Martin Scorsese gets the era’s costumes, set design, props, accents, and tone spot on, but as he takes on the vile nature of whiteness, he paints with a crayon. 

The film is about white men murdering many people in the wealthy Osage Nation for the mineral rights to their oil-rich land. The movie clearly shows that even though the Nation amassed great wealth, they had no power. The Indigenous people in this film are one-dimensional, defined only by their wealth and pain. We see all of the Osage people suffering at the hands of white men, but we don’t ever get to see the why behind all that pain. Scorsese scratches the surface of white dominance with Ernest (Leonardo DiCaprio, Titanic), who says the lines, “I love money,” at several key moments in the film. We see how conniving and precise his uncle William Hale (Robert De Niro, Taxi Driver) is as he blatantly organizes the murders of prominent Osage men, then creates the worst interracial matchmaking service ever, where the women of color end up dead.  

The film is over three hours long, and for all of that fine acting, I still don’t know for sure why Mollie (Lily Gladstone, Reservation Dogs) and all of those Osage women married those white men even though they knew the white men were marrying them for their money. Mollie has a few lines where she ruminates about Ernest pursuing her only because she’s rich.

There are some scenes of intimacy; is Scorsese saying these women married these white men because of the sex? It’s not clear. The audience never gets a sense of the Osage men beyond the broad stereotypes that filmmakers had made about Native Americans for the past one hundred years. We know the Osage men are being killed. Still, we don’t see any loving relationships between Osage men and women that humanize the plight of the Osage beyond being victimized and brutally killed onscreen.

The movie was way too long. I’m glad I watched Killers of the Flower Moon at home on pay-per-stream because I kept falling asleep and had to rewind and rewatch. It ended up taking me several hours to complete this film. I left this movie not knowing much about the Osage people other than how white men victimized them.

This wasn’t a story meant for me. This kind of trauma porn was hard on my nervous system. I hated seeing Brown people destroyed yet again. It was a story by a white man for white people to show white folks how greedy their ancestors were whilst convincing themselves they aren’t as evil as their forefathers were.

Is this film worth watching? Sure. If you have the bandwidth, I encourage you to do so. There’s a ton of great acting and the technical filmmaking aspects are incredible. But I made this one of the worst films I saw this year because Martin Scorsese could have done this story better. For all of his good intentions, he didn’t write this script with a Native American screenwriter, who could have added more texture and layers to the Native characters, the actors brought to life so brilliantly. Couldn’t his team have reached out to the writer’s room of FX’s Reservation Dogs for writers? They got some actors from that show. Speaking of television, TV shows like Blue Eye Samurai on Netflix and The Cure on Prime Video are telling stories about white dominance with authenticity and complexity while humanizing everyone on screen. So, yes, it is possible to do so. 

Scorsese missed a huge opportunity to tell this American story with a level of sophistication that could have made this a truly incredible film instead of just virtue signaling.

Killers of the Flower Moon is now available on pay-per-streaming on AppleTV+.

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December 24, 2023

Party Over Here! Essentials For Your Next Decked-Out Holiday Gathering

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Originally published Dec. 3, 2021

The best part of the holidays is gathering with people you love for parties of any kind. If you plan to host any events or gatherings this month, Amazon has just what you need to get the party started! Take a gander at these products to make your next function a true house party!

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Buffet Organizer   

This item is awesome in so many ways! It neatly organizes your plates, napkins, and utensils, keeping your food table nice and elegant. This item is compact and will not take up too much space, allowing your guests to grab what they need without fuss.

 

Black Card Revoked: Party Pack 

Looking for games rooted in Black culture and humor for a Christmas social, couples night, or random gathering? Then look no further than this product of four different card games created by a Black-owned company with a larger number of women employees.

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Spirits Stemless Wineglasses

No shade intended, but you work hard throughout the year and deserve to sip cocktails in something a bit more luxurious than a red cup! These wineglasses are something to toast with and will set the tone for a fun-filled party with your favorite drinks.

 

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Christmas Headbands 

What’s a party without a little costuming? These headbands come in a pack of 12 designs and are one-size-fits-all. Pair one with your ugliest Christmas sweater, and you’re ready to hit the scene and have a funky good time.

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Holiday Photo Booth Props Kit 

Create memorable pictures by incorporating these props into your party pics. Items will arrive cut out and ready to assemble with wooden dowel sticks and adhesives included. It comes with 20 props in a pack. Even the shyest person in the room will enjoy these!

Inflatable Reindeer Antlers Ring Toss Game Set  

Let the reindeer games begin! This product comes with four inflatable reindeer antlers and 24 pieces of red and green rings. This game will allow guests to show their competitiveness and keep the laughter flowing, especially if the eggnog has a little “kick” to it!

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December 24, 2023

Simone Biles And Jonathan Owens ‘Unbothered’ By Criticism

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After Simone Biles and her husband Jonathan Owens made an appearance on The Pivot podcast with former NFL players Ryan Clark, Fred Taylor and Channing Crowder, much of the discussion centered on a two-minute and 30 second clip that many on social media described as another example of a man trying to humble a woman with whom he is in a relationship with. However, Biles and her beau are “unbothered” according to E! News. 

The pair matched on the dating app Raya in 2020, and as Biles herself has previously noted in other appearances about her relationship with Owens, the NFL defensive back didn’t know who she was. Owens said he didn’t really follow gymnastics that much before he met Biles, saying that it wasn’t until he looked at her Instagram profile that he really understood how big a deal she was, telling Clark and Crowder, “I’m like, ‘Lemme see who this is.’ I never really paid attention to gymnastics, so it piqued my curiosity.” Owens recalled. “The first thing that I saw was that she just had a bunch of [Instagram] followers. So in my mind I’m like, ‘Okay, she’s gotta be good.” 

Once Crowder asked Owens how he “pulled” Biles, his responses from that point on turned into phrases that seemed built to drum up controversy. Owens said that the question was really about how Biles pulled him, before stating that he believes that men are always the prize. Further assisting in the controversy was Owens’s insinuation that Biles eventually wore him down as he told his story about how he was initially afraid to commit to a relationship but he eventually relented because Biles kept applying pressure. Though that may not be what Owens was aiming to do, many people in the comments section of “The Pivot” YouTube channel chimed in about how his comments, to them, signaled a red flag.

If the two have read any of the online discourse about them and their relationship, largely drawn from people’s reactions to a Super Bowl commercial length clip, they have not taken any of it to heart. According to People Magazine, Owens made a post to his Instagram account featuring photos of the couple on their wedding day as well as other more relaxed shots, with the caption reading “Unbothered Just know we locked in over here.”

Biles commented on the post with a pair of emojis, a fingers crossed emoji and puckered lips emoji, followed by the words “for life.” An indication that Biles also is not going to let the words, ideas, or opinions of strangers online affect the relationship that she enjoys with her husband. 

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