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“Fear is the path to the Dark Side. Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering.” – Yoda, The Phantom Menace
Some days it feels like the world’s ills are so great and all-encompassing that any energy expended toward fighting or changing them feels like trying to melt a glacier with a blow dryer. Today, however, in light of two rather large stories that have come out, it seems an opportune time to make use of the momentum and start chipping away at the weak spots in the hopes of bringing injustice down.
First, there’s the story that Buzzfeed released yesterday called “Alt-White: How the Breitbart Machine Laundered Racist Hate.” It’s the kind of in-depth investigative reporting that not only deserves to be read and shared, but reminds us of the importance of a free press. Anyone who professes to want to defend “free speech” but then turns on legitimate acts of journalism, calling everything that casts them in a bad light “fake news” has no idea what the First Amendment was designed to protect.
The piece reveals emails and other documentation making clear the connections between Steve Bannon, Milo Yiannopoulos, Breibart as a platform, white nationalist groups, the alt-right, and the rise of Donald Trump. It’s a frightening read precisely because it confirms things that, up until now, many people were hoping were exaggerated. They were not.
Even more frightening, though, is that it not only names the usual suspects, but it implicates both private (unnamed) citizens and public figures, who we’d assume were on the side of progressive values and tolerance, and who were feminist and anti-racist. This, for me, was the truly terrifying part of the read. It talks about a “diverse group of Americans” who, “Aggrieved by the encroachment of so-called cultural Marxism into American public life, and egged on by an endless stream of stories on Fox News about safe spaces and racially charged campus confrontations…took to Yiannopoulos’s inbox to thank him and to confess their fears about the future of the country.”
It goes on to describe them:
“He heard from ancient veterans who “binge-watched” his speeches on YouTube; from “a 58 year old asian woman” concerned about her high school daughter’s progressive teachers; from boys asking how to win classroom arguments against feminists; from a former NASA employee who said he had been “laid off by my fat female boss” and was sad that the Jet Propulsion Lab had become “completely cucked”; from a man who had bought his 11-year-old son an AR-15 and named it “Milo”; from an Indiana lesbian who said she “despised liberals” and begged Yiannopoulos to “keep triggering the special snowflakes”; from a doctoral student in philosophy who said he had been threatened with dismissal from his program for sharing his low opinion of Islam; from a Charlotte police officer thanking Yiannopoulos for his “common sense Facebook posts” about the shooting of Keith Lamont Scott (“BLUE LIVES MATTER,” Yiannopoulos responded); from a New Jersey school teacher who feared his students would become “pawns for the left social justice campaign”; from a man who said he had returned from a deployment in “an Islamic country” to discover that his wife was transitioning and wanted a divorce (subject line “Regressivism stole my wife”); from a father terrified his daughter might attend Smith College; from fans who wanted to give him jokes to use about fat people, about gay people, about Muslims, about Hillary Clinton.”
Even more disturbing are the public voices we’ve come to know and trust based on the progressive platforms for which they work, who were supporting, collaborating with, and championing Yiannopoulos on the DL. Several of whom were women:
- An anonymous, female film editor going by the name “Undercover ‘pede in Hollywood” (“Centipede” is apparently a slang term for Trump supporters online) who wrote him saying: “I’m a relatively recent ex-lefty who received deep liberal indoctrination via elite private schools (Yale and Andover). I’ve been deeply closeted thus far due to the severe personal and professional repercussions of not beating the progressive drum.”
- A production manager at E! wrote Yiannopoulos saying that she considers her workplace a “contributor to the fake news machine and my colleagues have become insufferable. … I … offer you my services … a partner in fighting globalism.” (PS – “globalism” is totally an anti-semitic dog whistle)
- Adam Grandmaison, whom Rolling Stone lauded as “hip-hop’s major tastemaker,” emailed Yiannapolous to investigate a journalist who’d accused her ex-boyfriend of abusing her, but made sure to tell him that he didn’t want anyone knowing that he reached out. (We totally know now, douche. Way to sic a sexist, racist tool of the white supremacist machine on an abused woman, asshole)
Most disappointing and upsetting of all are the fellow writers at liberal outlets who somehow never managed to absorb any human decency in all their time working for these places. Take Mitchell Sunderland, senior staff writer at Broadly, Vice’s women’s site, who wrote to Yiannapoulos “Please mock this fat feminist” in May 2016, when sending him an article by Lindy West. Or Dan Lyons, veteran tech reporter and editor, as well as a former writer on HBO’s Silicon Valley, who emailed with Yiannopoulos periodically to wonder about whether or not Zoë Quinn and Amber Discko (founder of Femsplain) were trans, based on their appearances.
Just today, Lyons said on Twitter that he “didn’t remember those emails until BFeed contacted me. When they did, I reached out to [Quinn and Discko] & apologized.” To which Quinn responded,
No you didn’t. https://t.co/xi7XYwTqMg
— 💀zombië queen💀 (@UnburntWitch) October 6, 2017
Lyons then proceeded to block Quinn. HE blocked HER. Because now he’s suffering, poor baby, because she reminded him that he’s a liar.
Sadly, this behavior echoes that of our brother site, Mediaite, who repeatedly uses scare quotes around words like misogyny and transphobia and engages in sexist “reporting” (scare quotes on purpose) in an effort to court the Internet’s worst impulses.
So, not only are there white supremacists to contend with, but there are their greedy enablers who provide platforms for them, making money off of their unfounded, irrational fears; and the collaborators, many of whom are members of the very groups that white supremacists would ultimately destroy (women, the LGBTQIA community, people of color) thinking themselves exceptions to racism and sexism and throwing the rest of their groups under the bus. Giving into their fear by diving straight into denial.
“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.” – Frank Herbert, Dune
Now, let’s move from the upholding of sociopolitical injustice, to the industry-specific sexism of Hollywood. As I wrote about yesterday, Harvey Weinstein has become the latest powerful Hollywood executive to be implicated in a sexual harassment scandal spanning decades.
Well, perhaps “powerful” is an overstatement. In discussing the situation online, a friend of mine made the excellent point that we need to remember that the only reason this is all coming out about Weinstein now is that his power in Hollywood has been waning. The same can be said about many of the men we’re hearing about now: your Bill Cosbys, or Woody Allens, etc, etc. She expressed the concern that some female assistant somewhere, moved by all this new information coming out, is going to speak out against some currently powerful executive or other, outing him as a sexual harasser or a rapist without lawyering up, and she’d be crushed.
What has been particularly frustrating today is that far too many people, people with big names and clout, refuse to speak out against the rampant sexism in the industry for fear of reprisal. The Daily Beast talks about how, “For as long as Hollywood has existed, the ‘casting couch’—wherein film executives and filmmakers prey on powerless ingénues—has been so familiar as to become hackneyed.”
It’s become “the way it is.” It’s become something people laugh about. It’s become an unexamined stereotype. A reason for people to avoid Hollywood, sure, but nothing that Hollywood itself ever actually moves to stop. As Marilyn Monroe put it in her memoir, My Story:
“I met them all. Phoniness and failure were all over them. Some were vicious and crooked. But they were as near to the movies as you could get. So you sat with them, listening to their lies and schemes. And you saw Hollywood with their eyes—an overcrowded brothel, a merry-go-round with beds for horses.”
And here we are, with rampant sexism and sexual harassment still a problem in Hollywood. And here we are with rampant sexism and sexual harassment still a problem in the world. And here we are, mere decades after saying Never Again re: the Holocaust, and mere decades after the Voting Rights Act of 1965, fighting a resurgence of white supremacy we mistakenly thought was dead and buried. It wasn’t dead and buried. It was just simmering. Biding its time. Waiting.
These stories have me thinking a lot about fear. After all, the irrational prejudices that lead to things like systemic racism and sexism are all fear-based. Racists and sexists are insecure and afraid about their place in this world, and the only way they see to ensure that place is to keep others down.
However, it isn’t even the racists and the sexists that I’m worried about. It’s the ones who don’t actually care one way or the other, but who use and manipulate racist and sexist fear in the interests of their own greed. That, to me, is the true evil: greed at the expense of people’s lives. Greed disguised as “political opinion.”
What’s heartbreaking to me is that there seem to be an endless supply of people that will help them in these goals while looking the other way. Because they are afraid.
“The purpose is to experience fear. Fear in the face of certain death. To accept that fear, and maintain control of oneself and one’s crew. This is a quality expected in every Starfleet captain.” – Spock, Star Trek (2009)
I understand that fear. Hell, I hesitated in talking about Mediaite in this very piece, out of concern for my own job (we’re owned by the same parent company), and it sucks that we’re essentially played against each other for clicks.
I understand that it’s much easier to instruct people in other industries about what they should be doing in the fight against racism and sexism while finding it difficult to follow your own advice in your own industry, because then it’s your job, your life that hangs in the balance.
At the same time, I’m finding it increasingly inexcusable that, for example, news outlets keep giving white supremacists air time and column inches as if the beliefs they spew are legitimate political opinion and not the hate-filled, insecurity-fueled bolstering of their own power and greed that they are.
I’m finding it increasingly inexcusable that the men who say they are allies to women nonetheless allow men like Weinstein to operate openly and say nothing. Why? Because they’re afraid they’ll be considered “not real men” if they speak up? Here’s a tip: a “real man” is an adult male person who takes responsibility for his actions and works to create and build rather than destroy. That’s it. That’s all there is to it. So, you’re not a “real man” if you don’t speak up.
I’m finding it increasingly inexcusable that big-name actresses continue to work with known sexual harassers because, well, he hasn’t done anything like that to me. You might be fine, but you’re actively allowing your industry to remain hostile toward women just like you. It might not have bitten you in the ass yet, but it will.
And I’m finding it increasingly inexcusable that we in marginalized groups have been more than ready to throw each other under the bus to protect ourselves.
And again, I understand. But at some point, fear has to stop being an excuse. At some point, we have to risk speaking out ourselves, or standing with those brave enough to go out on a limb first. At some point, we have to stop being more concerned with protecting ourselves than we are with protecting each other.
Racism and sexism are based in fear, and you can’t fight fear with more fear. Fear has to be overcome. We have to find bravery. We have to see our fears as the lies that they are, and work and act toward better. Or, we need to admit that we don’t really care that much about rampant injustice, so long as we remain comfortable, and we need to be okay with that. Make no mistake, those are the choices. There’s no more room for the sniveling, half-assed shows of solidarity without actively speaking up when it counts, or taking action.
I’m writing this, in part, as a reminder to myself. Seeking inspiration from the geek stories I love, and remembering that nothing good ever comes from being afraid. It’s not about acting recklessly, it’s about being determined and consistent. It’s about expressing our values with action, and not letting fear lull us into complacency.
(image: Disney/Lucasfilm)
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“Fear is the path to the Dark Side. Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering.” – Yoda, The Phantom Menace
Some days it feels like the world’s ills are so great and all-encompassing that any energy expended toward fighting or changing them feels like trying to melt a glacier with a blow dryer. Today, however, in light of two rather large stories that have come out, it seems an opportune time to make use of the momentum and start chipping away at the weak spots in the hopes of bringing injustice down.
First, there’s the story that Buzzfeed released yesterday called “Alt-White: How the Breitbart Machine Laundered Racist Hate.” It’s the kind of in-depth investigative reporting that not only deserves to be read and shared, but reminds us of the importance of a free press. Anyone who professes to want to defend “free speech” but then turns on legitimate acts of journalism, calling everything that casts them in a bad light “fake news” has no idea what the First Amendment was designed to protect.
The piece reveals emails and other documentation making clear the connections between Steve Bannon, Milo Yiannopoulos, Breibart as a platform, white nationalist groups, the alt-right, and the rise of Donald Trump. It’s a frightening read precisely because it confirms things that, up until now, many people were hoping were exaggerated. They were not.
Even more frightening, though, is that it not only names the usual suspects, but it implicates both private (unnamed) citizens and public figures, who we’d assume were on the side of progressive values and tolerance, and who were feminist and anti-racist. This, for me, was the truly terrifying part of the read. It talks about a “diverse group of Americans” who, “Aggrieved by the encroachment of so-called cultural Marxism into American public life, and egged on by an endless stream of stories on Fox News about safe spaces and racially charged campus confrontations…took to Yiannopoulos’s inbox to thank him and to confess their fears about the future of the country.”
It goes on to describe them:
“He heard from ancient veterans who “binge-watched” his speeches on YouTube; from “a 58 year old asian woman” concerned about her high school daughter’s progressive teachers; from boys asking how to win classroom arguments against feminists; from a former NASA employee who said he had been “laid off by my fat female boss” and was sad that the Jet Propulsion Lab had become “completely cucked”; from a man who had bought his 11-year-old son an AR-15 and named it “Milo”; from an Indiana lesbian who said she “despised liberals” and begged Yiannopoulos to “keep triggering the special snowflakes”; from a doctoral student in philosophy who said he had been threatened with dismissal from his program for sharing his low opinion of Islam; from a Charlotte police officer thanking Yiannopoulos for his “common sense Facebook posts” about the shooting of Keith Lamont Scott (“BLUE LIVES MATTER,” Yiannopoulos responded); from a New Jersey school teacher who feared his students would become “pawns for the left social justice campaign”; from a man who said he had returned from a deployment in “an Islamic country” to discover that his wife was transitioning and wanted a divorce (subject line “Regressivism stole my wife”); from a father terrified his daughter might attend Smith College; from fans who wanted to give him jokes to use about fat people, about gay people, about Muslims, about Hillary Clinton.”
Even more disturbing are the public voices we’ve come to know and trust based on the progressive platforms for which they work, who were supporting, collaborating with, and championing Yiannopoulos on the DL. Several of whom were women:
- An anonymous, female film editor going by the name “Undercover ‘pede in Hollywood” (“Centipede” is apparently a slang term for Trump supporters online) who wrote him saying: “I’m a relatively recent ex-lefty who received deep liberal indoctrination via elite private schools (Yale and Andover). I’ve been deeply closeted thus far due to the severe personal and professional repercussions of not beating the progressive drum.”
- A production manager at E! wrote Yiannopoulos saying that she considers her workplace a “contributor to the fake news machine and my colleagues have become insufferable. … I … offer you my services … a partner in fighting globalism.” (PS – “globalism” is totally an anti-semitic dog whistle)
- Adam Grandmaison, whom Rolling Stone lauded as “hip-hop’s major tastemaker,” emailed Yiannapolous to investigate a journalist who’d accused her ex-boyfriend of abusing her, but made sure to tell him that he didn’t want anyone knowing that he reached out. (We totally know now, douche. Way to sic a sexist, racist tool of the white supremacist machine on an abused woman, asshole)
Most disappointing and upsetting of all are the fellow writers at liberal outlets who somehow never managed to absorb any human decency in all their time working for these places. Take Mitchell Sunderland, senior staff writer at Broadly, Vice’s women’s site, who wrote to Yiannapoulos “Please mock this fat feminist” in May 2016, when sending him an article by Lindy West. Or Dan Lyons, veteran tech reporter and editor, as well as a former writer on HBO’s Silicon Valley, who emailed with Yiannopoulos periodically to wonder about whether or not Zoë Quinn and Amber Discko (founder of Femsplain) were trans, based on their appearances.
Just today, Lyons said on Twitter that he “didn’t remember those emails until BFeed contacted me. When they did, I reached out to [Quinn and Discko] & apologized.” To which Quinn responded,
No you didn’t. https://t.co/xi7XYwTqMg
— 💀zombië queen💀 (@UnburntWitch) October 6, 2017
Lyons then proceeded to block Quinn. HE blocked HER. Because now he’s suffering, poor baby, because she reminded him that he’s a liar.
Sadly, this behavior echoes that of our brother site, Mediaite, who repeatedly uses scare quotes around words like misogyny and transphobia and engages in sexist “reporting” (scare quotes on purpose) in an effort to court the Internet’s worst impulses.
So, not only are there white supremacists to contend with, but there are their greedy enablers who provide platforms for them, making money off of their unfounded, irrational fears; and the collaborators, many of whom are members of the very groups that white supremacists would ultimately destroy (women, the LGBTQIA community, people of color) thinking themselves exceptions to racism and sexism and throwing the rest of their groups under the bus. Giving into their fear by diving straight into denial.
“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.” – Frank Herbert, Dune
Now, let’s move from the upholding of sociopolitical injustice, to the industry-specific sexism of Hollywood. As I wrote about yesterday, Harvey Weinstein has become the latest powerful Hollywood executive to be implicated in a sexual harassment scandal spanning decades.
Well, perhaps “powerful” is an overstatement. In discussing the situation online, a friend of mine made the excellent point that we need to remember that the only reason this is all coming out about Weinstein now is that his power in Hollywood has been waning. The same can be said about many of the men we’re hearing about now: your Bill Cosbys, or Woody Allens, etc, etc. She expressed the concern that some female assistant somewhere, moved by all this new information coming out, is going to speak out against some currently powerful executive or other, outing him as a sexual harasser or a rapist without lawyering up, and she’d be crushed.
What has been particularly frustrating today is that far too many people, people with big names and clout, refuse to speak out against the rampant sexism in the industry for fear of reprisal. The Daily Beast talks about how, “For as long as Hollywood has existed, the ‘casting couch’—wherein film executives and filmmakers prey on powerless ingénues—has been so familiar as to become hackneyed.”
It’s become “the way it is.” It’s become something people laugh about. It’s become an unexamined stereotype. A reason for people to avoid Hollywood, sure, but nothing that Hollywood itself ever actually moves to stop. As Marilyn Monroe put it in her memoir, My Story:
“I met them all. Phoniness and failure were all over them. Some were vicious and crooked. But they were as near to the movies as you could get. So you sat with them, listening to their lies and schemes. And you saw Hollywood with their eyes—an overcrowded brothel, a merry-go-round with beds for horses.”
And here we are, with rampant sexism and sexual harassment still a problem in Hollywood. And here we are with rampant sexism and sexual harassment still a problem in the world. And here we are, mere decades after saying Never Again re: the Holocaust, and mere decades after the Voting Rights Act of 1965, fighting a resurgence of white supremacy we mistakenly thought was dead and buried. It wasn’t dead and buried. It was just simmering. Biding its time. Waiting.
These stories have me thinking a lot about fear. After all, the irrational prejudices that lead to things like systemic racism and sexism are all fear-based. Racists and sexists are insecure and afraid about their place in this world, and the only way they see to ensure that place is to keep others down.
However, it isn’t even the racists and the sexists that I’m worried about. It’s the ones who don’t actually care one way or the other, but who use and manipulate racist and sexist fear in the interests of their own greed. That, to me, is the true evil: greed at the expense of people’s lives. Greed disguised as “political opinion.”
What’s heartbreaking to me is that there seem to be an endless supply of people that will help them in these goals while looking the other way. Because they are afraid.
“The purpose is to experience fear. Fear in the face of certain death. To accept that fear, and maintain control of oneself and one’s crew. This is a quality expected in every Starfleet captain.” – Spock, Star Trek (2009)
I understand that fear. Hell, I hesitated in talking about Mediaite in this very piece, out of concern for my own job (we’re owned by the same parent company), and it sucks that we’re essentially played against each other for clicks.
I understand that it’s much easier to instruct people in other industries about what they should be doing in the fight against racism and sexism while finding it difficult to follow your own advice in your own industry, because then it’s your job, your life that hangs in the balance.
At the same time, I’m finding it increasingly inexcusable that, for example, news outlets keep giving white supremacists air time and column inches as if the beliefs they spew are legitimate political opinion and not the hate-filled, insecurity-fueled bolstering of their own power and greed that they are.
I’m finding it increasingly inexcusable that the men who say they are allies to women nonetheless allow men like Weinstein to operate openly and say nothing. Why? Because they’re afraid they’ll be considered “not real men” if they speak up? Here’s a tip: a “real man” is an adult male person who takes responsibility for his actions and works to create and build rather than destroy. That’s it. That’s all there is to it. So, you’re not a “real man” if you don’t speak up.
I’m finding it increasingly inexcusable that big-name actresses continue to work with known sexual harassers because, well, he hasn’t done anything like that to me. You might be fine, but you’re actively allowing your industry to remain hostile toward women just like you. It might not have bitten you in the ass yet, but it will.
And I’m finding it increasingly inexcusable that we in marginalized groups have been more than ready to throw each other under the bus to protect ourselves.
And again, I understand. But at some point, fear has to stop being an excuse. At some point, we have to risk speaking out ourselves, or standing with those brave enough to go out on a limb first. At some point, we have to stop being more concerned with protecting ourselves than we are with protecting each other.
Racism and sexism are based in fear, and you can’t fight fear with more fear. Fear has to be overcome. We have to find bravery. We have to see our fears as the lies that they are, and work and act toward better. Or, we need to admit that we don’t really care that much about rampant injustice, so long as we remain comfortable, and we need to be okay with that. Make no mistake, those are the choices. There’s no more room for the sniveling, half-assed shows of solidarity without actively speaking up when it counts, or taking action.
I’m writing this, in part, as a reminder to myself. Seeking inspiration from the geek stories I love, and remembering that nothing good ever comes from being afraid. It’s not about acting recklessly, it’s about being determined and consistent. It’s about expressing our values with action, and not letting fear lull us into complacency.
(image: Disney/Lucasfilm)
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Last Sunday’s purported Rick and Morty finale was a pretty hilarious episode, but as far as a season-ender goes, it came up a little bit short. We were hoping for a more definitive ending to this year’s storylines—after all, recent developments on the show had us expecting a different President to come after the show’s titular duo. And to be perfectly frank, we don’t really consider the issue of Beth’s true nature to be settled at all, either. But what if the show’s creators have trolled us yet again? Today’s Nerdist News is investigating the theory that a true third season finale may be our early Christmas gift!
Join host, and the only woman brave enough to challenge the Citadel of Ricks, Jessica Chobot, as she walks us through an intriguing hypothesis about the show’s potential finale. Apparently, many fans believe that Mister Poopybutthole’s comments in the end credits scene were overt hints that at least one more episode is coming. He mentioned having a long white beard the next time we see him, which naturally has fans assuming that he means Santa Claus. That led to the notion that the real season finale will be a Christmas episode.
Now, we love that idea. And it would fit in Adult Swim’s wheelhouse to suddenly drop a new episode of Rick and Morty without warning. That April Fool’s Day stunt is still one of our favorites. But the reality is that fans may be reading too much into the throwaway comments of a minor character. Mister Poopybutthole also said that he might have grandchildren to go along with his long white beard, so the Santa Claus analogy doesn’t really hold up.
On top of everything else, series co-creator Dan Harmon has admitted that the episode we saw last Sunday wasn’t originally intended to be the season finale. Harmon and the rest of the team just realized that they couldn’t reach their target of 14 new episodes and settled for “finale-izing” Rick’s battle with the President. The team behind the show are probably working on new episodes as we speak, since it is one of Adult Swim’s biggest hits. But we would be very pleasantly surprised if the rumor of a secret season finale turned out to be true. We’re not expecting it to pan out, but we’d love to be wrong!
What do you think about about the secret Rick and Morty season finale theory? Let’s discuss in the comment section below!
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