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Donald Trump gives his best approximation of a human smile in front of the American flag.

Cher made a joke that wasn’t in the best of taste, reverting back to the days of joking about prison rape. The joke, which has since been deleted from Twitter, insinuated that Cher wanted Trump to go to prison to be the “toy boy of Big Bubba.”

The joke was in terribly bad taste—something that Cher later recognized. While she did not apologize, she did delete the tweet and made a follow-up tweet stating why she deleted it and how she went too with her comment. So, before we jump in: Cher’s joke? Not great. Demanding that she apologize to the Donald Trump, personally, for that joke? Ridiculous.

It’s great that Cher recognized the line she crossed with this tweet, and that she took it down and owned up to that, but that has little to do with Donald Trump himself. She was adult enough to realizee the joke itself was in bad taste on a societal level. What’s great about Cher is that if she made a different joke about the president going to jail, it’d still be standing on Twitter. This deletion isn’t about the president, but about her understanding of what is not okay to joke about.

But do you know who isn’t adulting correctly? Piers Morgan and everyone crying about how that joke was mean to the president.

Kathy Griffin received death threats for her severed head joke, they tried to cancel Star Wars because they thought it had an anti-Trump message (which is hilarious seeing as Star Wars has always had an anti-fascist message, but … okay), and those are just the tip of the iceberg. But what angers me so is that everyone who says something against the president in the public eye has to issue some apology because Piers Morgan starts whining.

Want to know what the president has not apologized for? The birther rumor, the Central Park Five, and … should I keep going? Oh, he did apologize for the “grab them by the pussy” comment, but only because, politically, he had to. He wasn’t remorseful; he just wanted to win.

Everyone around the president and the president himself can say what they want and do whatever they want to do, without having to apologize. Piers Morgan’s comment on the situation is laughable because he said that if this were about Obama, Cher would never work again.

I’m sorry, but did all Trump supporters just up and forget the Obama era and the rude things people said about him? Those in the public eye specifically? Donald Trump specifically? The only difference is Obama knew how to react with dignity, while Trump whines and cries and gets his lackeys to yell at people. You know … like a bully.

But, at least Trump and his fans aren’t deterring Cher anytime soon.

I truly think that Cher did need to take down the joke, but I don’t think she owes Trump himself any kind of apology. She reacted in a way that wass honorable and was an adult about the situation. Trump’s supporters suddenly crying wolf about a prison rape joke when the president himself has condoned groping women without their consent? That’s laughable.

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May 30, 2019

Stop Making People Apologize to Donald Trump Until He Apologizes

https://www.themarysue.com/stop-apologizing-to-trump/

Donald Trump gives his best approximation of a human smile in front of the American flag.

Cher made a joke that wasn’t in the best of taste, reverting back to the days of joking about prison rape. The joke, which has since been deleted from Twitter, insinuated that Cher wanted Trump to go to prison to be the “toy boy of Big Bubba.”

The joke was in terribly bad taste—something that Cher later recognized. While she did not apologize, she did delete the tweet and made a follow-up tweet stating why she deleted it and how she went too with her comment. So, before we jump in: Cher’s joke? Not great. Demanding that she apologize to the Donald Trump, personally, for that joke? Ridiculous.

It’s great that Cher recognized the line she crossed with this tweet, and that she took it down and owned up to that, but that has little to do with Donald Trump himself. She was adult enough to realizee the joke itself was in bad taste on a societal level. What’s great about Cher is that if she made a different joke about the president going to jail, it’d still be standing on Twitter. This deletion isn’t about the president, but about her understanding of what is not okay to joke about.

But do you know who isn’t adulting correctly? Piers Morgan and everyone crying about how that joke was mean to the president.

Kathy Griffin received death threats for her severed head joke, they tried to cancel Star Wars because they thought it had an anti-Trump message (which is hilarious seeing as Star Wars has always had an anti-fascist message, but … okay), and those are just the tip of the iceberg. But what angers me so is that everyone who says something against the president in the public eye has to issue some apology because Piers Morgan starts whining.

Want to know what the president has not apologized for? The birther rumor, the Central Park Five, and … should I keep going? Oh, he did apologize for the “grab them by the pussy” comment, but only because, politically, he had to. He wasn’t remorseful; he just wanted to win.

Everyone around the president and the president himself can say what they want and do whatever they want to do, without having to apologize. Piers Morgan’s comment on the situation is laughable because he said that if this were about Obama, Cher would never work again.

I’m sorry, but did all Trump supporters just up and forget the Obama era and the rude things people said about him? Those in the public eye specifically? Donald Trump specifically? The only difference is Obama knew how to react with dignity, while Trump whines and cries and gets his lackeys to yell at people. You know … like a bully.

But, at least Trump and his fans aren’t deterring Cher anytime soon.

I truly think that Cher did need to take down the joke, but I don’t think she owes Trump himself any kind of apology. She reacted in a way that wass honorable and was an adult about the situation. Trump’s supporters suddenly crying wolf about a prison rape joke when the president himself has condoned groping women without their consent? That’s laughable.

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May 30, 2019

Review: Let’s Talk About Jharrel Jerome’s Performance in ‘When They See Us’

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This week Netflix released the highly anticipated limited series about the story of the Central Park Five.

Created, written and directed by Ava DuVernay, the 4-part series chronicles the controversial case of five Black teens egregious accusations of rape against them towards a white woman named Trisha Meili taking an evening jog in Manhattan’s Central Park.   

Antron McCray, Kevin Richardson, Yusef Salaam, Raymond Santana, and Korey Wise were each sentenced to prison for a crime they didn’t commit. The film begins with the incident that occurred in the spring of 1989 and follows the aftermath of their arrests. The teens were questioned without an adult present and they were coerced excessively into a confession of wrongdoing.

When They See Us, captures 25 years of the boys’ lives growing into men who were later exonerated in 2002 which inevitably led to a settlement reached by the city of New York under Mayor Bill de Blasio.

There are a number of pacing issues with the series, as it takes a while to get to the details surrounding the case, and the plot presented challenges consolidating the narrative of each teen, how they ended up in the Central Park area that fateful night, and the interrogation practices against each teen that led to lying about their guilt. However, as opposed to analyzing the entire series, what stands out is the story of Korey Wise played brilliantly by actor Jharrel Jerome (Moonlight).

Jharrel Jerome as Korey Wise

Korey Wise’s sentencing was unique from the other victims accused, he received the longest sentence of them all — 12 years. Wise was the oldest and was 16 at the time he was convicted. He was incarcerated for sexual abuse, assault, and riot in the attack on the jogger and others in the park. In the film, Wise only became a person of interest because he chose to be there for his friend Yusef Salaam, who was brought in for questioning. If Wise had never made the fateful decision to support his friend, he may never have been involved.

The young teen was viciously beaten by police, and was made as an example of what can happen if you don’t “tell the truth”. In When They See Us, Korey Wise is also depicted as being a bit inarticulate and illiterate.  His lack of understanding, as well as his age, and not having an adult present to tell him right from wrong, ultimately led to him confessing to a crime he never committed.

CENTRAL PARK FIVE

It was gut-wrenching to see actor Jharrel Jerome deliver the same confession Wise did, and state, “I only raped her once, and don’t plan to do it again”. Jerome’s bewildered expression and unflinching desire for hope weren’t enough to save him from a wrongful conviction.  The final part of When They See Us focuses on Korey Wise making it on his own in prison. He was first sent to Riker’s Island and then transferred from one prison the next. The transfers were all by his request as he wanted to make it easier on his mother to visit him in hopes she would come often.

Unfortunately with each transfer request, landed him in a prison much farther away. Wise is beaten by inmates, mistreated and sabotaged by prison guards, and his mother becomes more and more distant.

He spends a great deal of his time in solitary confinement and begins to see visions of his sister, the only relative he had a deep connection with. Throughout this whole process, Wise keeps going and doesn’t give up. He does eventually give up on the parole board hearing after being turned down several times, but he doesn’t give up on himself.

There was a deep sense of connection while watching Jharrel Jerome depict Korey Wise on screen and tears began streaming down my cheek by the end of Korey’s story.

Jerome should heavily be considered for an awards nomination for this performance, it was breathtaking to watch him in nearly every scene.

Storm Reid as Lisa and Jharrel Jerome as Korey Wise

It’s unfathomable that this could even possibly be true and that the lives of these young souls were violated in such a horrendous way. DuVernay also makes certain that the audience knows that Donald Trump was responsible for calling for the death penalty of these young boys after taking out an $85,000 full-page ad in several New York newspapers. It should also be noted that Trump stood by his claims that the young men were guilty even after the state made their settlement.

If there is one thing to take away from watching When They See Us, it’s the story of Korey Wise and his faith that something good would happen in his lifetime. It also forces you to reflect on your own life and the trivial things that get you down. Nothing compares to what these boys went through, but what is significant here, is that they survived. They are still here to tell the tale of what happened to them and why and their story should never be forgotten. When They See Us is a story about beating odds, even when the circumstances around you seem like all hope is lost.

When They See Us streams on Netflix May 31st.

 

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May 29, 2019

Peter Gunz Denies Impregnating A 19-Year-Old, Twitter Still Reads Him For Filth

https://madamenoire.com/1075222/peter-gunz-denies-impregnating-a-19-year-old-twitter-still-reads-him-for-filth/

Peter Gunz Celebrity Birthday Celebration

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Over the weekend, there were rumors that 50-year-old former “Love & Hip Hop” star Peter Gunz was not only dating a 19-year-old, he’d gotten her pregnant. The rumor was spawned by a Media Takeout report and the fact that on an Instagram Live video from a year ago, Amina wrote a caption meant to expose Gunz.

“You don’t gotta show her to this mean world out here but u can admit you dating a younger woman while you at the topic. Especially when you planning on marrying her while we haven’t finalized our divorce…Yes Peter needs to turn the papers into the courts but hasn’t Meanwhile he engaged new lol.”

This caption with Media Takeouts post, was all it took.

As you can imagine the reaction from the internet was as follows:

For those of us who’ve lost count, Peter Gunz already has ten children. The thought of him having another with questionable and likely inconsistent income would be irresponsible, to say the least. It’s hard to be a present and active father when your children live in various parts of the country. And we would be remiss if we didn’t mention that the relationship he’s shared with at least two of his children’s mothers has been strained, as many of us witnessed.

But men having more babies than they can take care of is only part of the problem here. Peter’s oldest child, Cory, is 31-years-old. That would mean this alleged new girlfriend is younger than his oldest child. And there’s something skeevy about that and the thought of a 50-year-old man manipulating a teenager in this way.

Thankfully, the rumors weren’t true. Peter addressed them via Twitter yesterday.

Hopefully that “can’t make a baby if I wanted to” speaks to a possible vasectomy. But who knows. Even though Peter is not having another child, this admission didn’t keep people from roasting him anyway. See what folks had to say on the following pages.


May 28, 2019

Ultimate Buy Black Father’s Day 2019 Gift Guide: Men’s Fashion

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Father’s Day Gift Guide: Men’s Fashion 

Benson Watch Co.

Launched by millennial entrepreneur Marcel Benson, the Benson Watch Co. offers innovative and elegant timepieces.

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Dapper Dan Clothing Line 

Daniel “Dapper Dan” Day pioneered luxury hip-hop fashion in the ’80s and ’90s by remixing high-end brands into urban streetwear. However, after closing shop 25 years ago, the legendary designer opened a new store in Harlem this year similar to the famous Dapper Dan Boutique that closed in 1992—but this time with a Gucci twist.

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(Image: Instagram/DapperDanHarlem)

 


LyfeStyle Clothing Line 

Born in Brooklyn, Lyfestyle captures the essence of New York City urban art, style, and flavor. The brand was birthed from the imaginations of four friends who loved the lavish fashion on Fifth Avenue but were limited to shopping on a budget.

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(Image: Instagram/LyfestyleNYC)


Abdju Wear

Abdju Wear is a new clothing line that sports high-end clothes and sneakers at affordable prices. The brand offers everything from polo-style shirts to high-top sneakers in traditional Pan-African flag colors. The designer, Bobby West, aspires to become a staple in black fashion the same way that Ralph Lauren has become one of the most iconic brands in the country.

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Abdju Wear founder Bobby West

 


Tradition

Help Dad rep his HBCU with apparel from Tradition, a collegiate and lifestyle brand.

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Loren S

If you know of or are a man who is a purveyor of fine clothing, then get familiar with Loren Spratt—a uniquely inspiring black-owned clothing brand wholly focused on the male consumer. The Atlanta-based men’s custom couture line is the brainchild of Clark Atlanta University grads Dalen Spratt, Juwan Mass, Brandon Theriot, and Mario McMillan.

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