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If you were wondering whether there was an update on Jim Jones and Chrissy Lampkin’s plans to end their over-decade-long engagement, media personality and host Kendra G. asked the rapper the infamous question during an interview this morning (May 27) and as expected, he jokingly gave her a sharp-tongued response.
When Kendra G. asked, “Is there still pressure for you and Chrissy to get officially married?” — the rapper started his answer by promptly asking her back, “You married? Yo mama married?”
When the radio host had interjected to say that neither she or her mother were married, Jones continued, “Alright then so that should answer your question. Why you worried about me getting married?”
“You talking to me about something you haven’t fulfilled or your mom hasn’t fulfilled so you shouldn’t be worried about what’s going on in my house — try to figure out what’s going on in yours,” the rapper shadily said.
When Kendra G. defended her choice to ask him the question by highlighting that “as a fan” she and other viewers watched him and Chrissy get engaged (twice, during the early seasons of Love & Hip Hop New York), Jones rebutted her statement by saying “as a fan — you fans need to turn around and see if your mama’s married, or your father’s married. That’s what you fans need to do. If that’s not going on in your household you fans don’t need to ask me any questions, you dig?”
After saying that he planned on taking that stance in any future interviews if someone asked him about he and Chrissy’s wedding plans again, the rapper went on to clear the air with Kendra G. by saying, “I’m just playing with you. Marriage is a beautiful thing. Everybody has their course in life and I love my woman and we’re doing extremely well and I’ve been together longer than I’ve seen people be married all over this world.”
“Every woman deserves marriage and when it’s the right time for us, please believe it’ll be done,” he added. “I don’t know if it’ll be done for the public but it’ll definitely be done for us.”
In a comment underneath @theneighborhoodtalk‘s repost of the clip, the radio personality didn’t seem to harbor any hard feelings about what Jones said to her. She also noted that at one point, her mother had been married but unfortunately she was now deceased.
Kendra G.’s comment read, “Gotta love Jim! For the record, no love was lost! We even laughed about this whole exchange. I respect his response. And for the record my Mother passed away… she was married at one point. Maybe I should have said that. ❤️ Again, it’s all good and all love! Thank you @theneighborhoodtalk for posting ❤️❤️❤️.”
On her own Instagram, she emphasized that what Jones said hadn’t been offensive to her and even made light of the rapper’s response to her question when she shared a clip of the interview. Her caption said, “JIM JONES GATHERED ME TOGETHER CHILE! ????♀️ @jimjonescapo It’s All Love!!! Just know if you are NOT Married yourself don’t ask Jim Jones when is he getting married!!! ???.”
See Kendra G’s post of the clip from The WGCI Morning Show’s interview with Jones down below.
Source: Shahar Azran / Getty
If you were wondering whether there was an update on Jim Jones and Chrissy Lampkin’s plans to end their over-decade-long engagement, media personality and host Kendra G. asked the rapper the infamous question during an interview this morning (May 27) and as expected, he jokingly gave her a sharp-tongued response.
When Kendra G. asked, “Is there still pressure for you and Chrissy to get officially married?” — the rapper started his answer by promptly asking her back, “You married? Yo mama married?”
When the radio host had interjected to say that neither she or her mother were married, Jones continued, “Alright then so that should answer your question. Why you worried about me getting married?”
“You talking to me about something you haven’t fulfilled or your mom hasn’t fulfilled so you shouldn’t be worried about what’s going on in my house — try to figure out what’s going on in yours,” the rapper shadily said.
When Kendra G. defended her choice to ask him the question by highlighting that “as a fan” she and other viewers watched him and Chrissy get engaged (twice, during the early seasons of Love & Hip Hop New York), Jones rebutted her statement by saying “as a fan — you fans need to turn around and see if your mama’s married, or your father’s married. That’s what you fans need to do. If that’s not going on in your household you fans don’t need to ask me any questions, you dig?”
After saying that he planned on taking that stance in any future interviews if someone asked him about he and Chrissy’s wedding plans again, the rapper went on to clear the air with Kendra G. by saying, “I’m just playing with you. Marriage is a beautiful thing. Everybody has their course in life and I love my woman and we’re doing extremely well and I’ve been together longer than I’ve seen people be married all over this world.”
“Every woman deserves marriage and when it’s the right time for us, please believe it’ll be done,” he added. “I don’t know if it’ll be done for the public but it’ll definitely be done for us.”
In a comment underneath @theneighborhoodtalk‘s repost of the clip, the radio personality didn’t seem to harbor any hard feelings about what Jones said to her. She also noted that at one point, her mother had been married but unfortunately she was now deceased.
Kendra G.’s comment read, “Gotta love Jim! For the record, no love was lost! We even laughed about this whole exchange. I respect his response. And for the record my Mother passed away… she was married at one point. Maybe I should have said that. ❤️ Again, it’s all good and all love! Thank you @theneighborhoodtalk for posting ❤️❤️❤️.”
On her own Instagram, she emphasized that what Jones said hadn’t been offensive to her and even made light of the rapper’s response to her question when she shared a clip of the interview. Her caption said, “JIM JONES GATHERED ME TOGETHER CHILE! ????♀️ @jimjonescapo It’s All Love!!! Just know if you are NOT Married yourself don’t ask Jim Jones when is he getting married!!! ???.”
See Kendra G’s post of the clip from The WGCI Morning Show’s interview with Jones down below.
By D'Shonda Brown ·May 27, 2021May 20, 2021
Summer doesn’t only mean sunshine, short shorts, and cute skirts. The season also marks the return of some of our favorite shows and the premiere of new ones.
Sure most of us will be out more this year — vaccine willing — but you’ll need something to watch when you return home from those boozy brunches on Sunday afternoons or when hanging with family or your boo on Friday nights. Whether you live for a teen drama or true-crime is your thing, we guarantee you’ll find these summer TV shows as binge-worthy as we do.
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By Brooklyn White ·May 26, 2021May 26, 2021
Beginning on May 26, Instagram is giving users the option to hide the likes they’re getting on posts. In addition to hiding their own likes, they’ll be able to stop seeing other people’s likes, too.
For your own posts, you’ll have the choice to keep the likes permanently hidden, or manually turn them off. “People want more flexibility, so we thought it would be important to give people the option,” Instagram said in a press release. In the coming weeks, these functions will be available on Facebook as well.
To hide like counts on other users’ posts, visit the new Posts section in Settings. This controlwill apply to all of the posts in your feed.
“The idea is to try and depressurize Instagram, make it less of a competition, give people more space to focus on connecting with the people that they love, things that inspire them,” said Adam Mosseri, Head of Instagram, during a 2019 conversation with Tracee Ellis Ross and Arielle Pardes. “But it’s really focused on young people. We have to see how it affects how people feel about the platform, how it affects how they use the platform [and] how it affects the creator ecosystem.”
This change comes in the midst of other additional features on the popular social media platform, including the ability to have pronouns listed in the bio section in your profile.
Instagram understands that there is no “one size fits all” approach to wellness and comfort as it pertains to social media, so the choice to hide likes will remain completely optional for users. Ultimately, the goal is for people to have a positive online experience that is unique to their needs.
TOPICS: Instagram Mental Health Social Media
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Not only does Trinidadian-American comedian Kerry Coddett brilliantly play Jasmine on Showtime’s new comedy Flatbush Misdemeanors, she’s a staff writer on this hilarious show as well. Versatility matters. Coddett has written on Wyatt Cenac’s Problem Areas (HBO) and has worked on countless comedy shows, including Ramy (Hulu), The Funny Dance Show (E), and the upcoming Pause with Sam Jay (HBO). BGN spoke with Brooklyn native Kerry Coddett via Zoom.
How did training at Upright Citizens Brigade (UCB) improv impact your career?
It was the first time I got to do improv, and I always like to joke that performing comedy with an ensemble, like a group, made me realize I wanted to do it by myself, so it really made stand up for me. [Laugh.] I’m gonna be honest. It taught me how to navigate predominantly white spaces. I never had to do that in my life, really. I grew up in Brooklyn, so all my schools were Black, mostly Black Caribbean, even in high school. I’ve never really had a traditional job, I’ve never done the corporate thing. Straight out of college, I started my own clothing company. Being at UCB, which was a predominantly white place, trying to climb to the top with people who had like-minded goals and finding myself like an “other” definitely helped thicken my skin and made me cut my teeth. And, I have friends I met at UCB in the industry and they’re still my friends, the people that I started with. I met really great people and collaboration is key.
What’s your “skin thickening” process?
I try not to take anything personally. So I’m not emotional when it comes to getting notes or feedback on my work, especially when you’re writing for someone else’s show. Ultimately, your job is just to make their job better and to give them what they want.
‘Flatbush Misdemeanors’ is fantastic. Were you hired as an actor then a writer or vice versa?
The show started as a web series in 2017. I played Kevin’s love interest in one episode, just a quick episode, one scene. I’ve always been a fan of the web series, so I was following it. When I saw that it got picked up, I just texted Kevin, “Congratulations,” and I was also like, “Don’t forget your Flatbush friends.” The quarantine was a blessing because it gave me time to work on my own original writing sample. If you are funny or you’re a stand up, that’s great, but if you’re going to be in a writers room, they need to know that you can write a script. When it came time to staff, they reached out and were like, “Do you have a sample?” and I happen to have my sample because, look at God! We stumbled into six months of free time and so I used it to work, sent him the sample, the rest is history. I ended up being in the room.
It was never clear that I would be on the show. I remember when I came to the writers room the first day, part of my “manifestation” was like, “I am Jasmine, I am Jasmine.” But as we started writing the show, I was just happy to be used however they want to use me. There’s so many people who make decisions that I was just like, “If it’s not for me, it’s not for me. What is for me, is for me.” But then they loved me so much in the writers room, word got back to Showtime and they basically were like, “We want her to audition for every part that is a Black adult female.” And I did it. I actually only auditioned for that one part, and they gave me that one part, and so it was kismet.
How does it feel to be writing diverse Caribbean American characters while including the nuances of so many cultures?
It feels great. I feel a great responsibility to make sure that I get things right. It’s opened my eyes to the ways in which being a Caribbean American is a distinct identity. Even when I’m writing for the Trinidadian characters in the roti shop, I have to double check. I literally call Trinidad. And I’m like, “Did I get this right?” And a lot of times it’s like, “No b*tch, you didn’t get it right!” And my family’s from Trinidad! So this has forced me to be honest. When we had Haitians in the script, I asked my Haitian friends. I wouldn’t dare to speak for the Haitian community or any Caribbean communities I don’t belong to.
As we are in this current “movement” of using art to come into people’s homes and show them the truth of who and what Blackness is, how does activism and philanthropy factor in?
I’ve always been motivated by a need to tell the truth since I was small. Whether it was spoken word at the Nuyorican, or rapping or doing stand up, I think ultimately, as an artist, my responsibility is only to tell the truth about the things that I care about. Not everybody’s gonna care about that. That’s fine if that’s not your truth; it just happens to be mine. So no matter what I do, my truth is going to leak out. It’s just what I care about. It’s what I’m driven to do no matter what.
I know you love dance. How important is dancing in your life and what is your favorite form of dance?
Oh I love this! I literally cried yesterday about bringing dance back into my life and realizing that once I stopped doing it for a living, that I forgot that it was my most favorite hobby. So today I literally put on my headphones and danced outside. My favorite genre, hands down, is dancehall. I love dancehall. I was a dancer, choreographer, toured with Mr. Vegas; dancehall makes me happy.
How are you connecting to joy?
Leaning into gratitude. Every single day I write down what I’m grateful for. I meditate, I smell the air, I make up my bed, I walk with my dog, every single moment brings me joy.
Don’t miss Showtime’s Flatbush Misdemeanors Sundays at 10:30pm EST.