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https://thenerdsofcolor.org/2021/08/05/noc-interview-talking-mr-corman-with-joseph-gordon-levitt/

Here at The Nerds of Color, we have been blessed to get very special opportunities to talk to some of the biggest and brightest names in showbiz today. But few come bigger and brighter than Mr. Joseph Gordon-Levitt! I must …

https://madamenoire.com/1234726/dear-ashley-how-do-i-overcome-shyness-around-physical-and-oral-sex/

Dear Ashley, a weekly sex column in which Sex Expert Ashley Cobb answers your most intimate questions. Nothing is off-limits!  Have a sex question, Ashley, “Your Favorite Friend In Filth”, has an answer. For questions on sex, email Ashley at ashley@sexwithashley.com

 

Dear Ashley,

I’m a pretty shy when it comes to sex. I have some past trauma and I sometimes get overwhelmed. I like kink and on rare occasions can be very dominant, but when asked what I like; If there is anything I want to try or what my preferences are, I mostly respond, ‘I don’t know.’ I just go along with the program.

I get flustered and confused when things start heating up. Like–what do I do with my hands, mouth? Blowjobs hurt my mouth; I can take the gagging but the strain it causes my jaw muscles is torture. I’m also afraid of my teeth getting in the way. I don’t know what to do with myself during foreplay. Any advice on sex and shyness?

Thanks,

Shy Girl

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Dear Shy Girl,

I totally get where you are coming from. Believe it or not I use to be very shy when it came to sex and in some ways I still am. Want to know how I overcame my awkwardness? Practice. Everybody can’t be Allen Iverson. Some of us need practice! Not to sound like an afterschool special, but practice really does make perfect. The more you do a thing the better you become at it. Do you masturabate? Masturbation is a great practice to learn your body. Masturbating helps you decipher what feels good, where your hot spots are located and how you like to be touched. I highly recommend starting a masturbation regimen if you haven’t done so already. 

Did you know I used to teach blowjob classes a few years ago? So consider me your blowjob Fairy Godmother. A blowjob hack I’ve learned over the years is to use speech motor exercises to decrease mouth pain during blowjobs. Your mouth and tongue are muscles and muscles can be overworked, so it’s good practice to warm them up before use. Want to hear a secret? Back in the day, I used to practice my blowjob skills on bananas. Bananas are easy to come by. They are penis-shaped and feel flesh-like which makes them the perfect fruit to practice fellatio. Go by your local grocery store and pick up a banana or two and go to work. That way when the real thing comes you won’t be intimidated. 

Also, therapy would be a great benefit. As you hinted, your past traumas may be a contributing factor to your shyness. A trained sex therapist may help you heal your tramuas around sex and give you resources on how to show up more confidently in the bedroom. Websites such as Therapy For Black Girls are a great resource to help locate the right therapist in your area who fits your needs.

 

Ashley Cobb, is the millennial microphone that brings the conversation of Black women’s pleasure to the forefront. Creator of digital platform Sex With Ashley, her work and words have been featured in Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, Shape Magazine, Business Insider, and Huffington Post. Follow her on Instagram and Twitter via @sexwithashley

 

https://blacknerdproblems.com/the-importance-of-making-space-for-black-spaces/

Listen, Racism be running wild everywhere. Black folk can’t escape it but what we can do is provide spaces for each other to be safe and celebrated. Tiffie Starchild speaks on the need for these spaces to exist as well as how they are NOT discriminatory against non-Black people. Be clear, everything doesn’t have to be for everyone and that is okay. Yes, there are Black spaces that allow Non-Black folks to participate, all that we ask is that they remember and be aware they are a guest in said space. Don’t go up in there wylin’ out.

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https://nerdist.com/article/tony-hawk-documentary-by-sam-jones-in-2022/

If you’ve ever wanted to find out more about the life of skateboarding legend Tony Hawk, your wait is over. A documentary about the icon is making its way to theaters next year. Variety revealed the world-famous skater would be the focus of an upcoming documentary by director Sam Jones. 

“We have already shot everything for it; it’s just in the editing process,” Hawk reveals to Variety. “I definitely wanted to give them as much footage and interview as possible.”

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Pretending I’m A Superman, a documentary about Hawk’s video games, came out in September of last year. So, this makes the Jones documentary the first to focus on his life and career.

Though this is Jones’ first film about Hawk, it isn’t the first time they have collaborated. In 2013, and a few times since, Hawk was a guest on Off Camera with Sam Jones, the director’s interview-format TV series. 

Though Hawk officially retired from the now-Olympic sport, he continues to be a pop culture mainstay. Just last year he competed on the popular show The Masked Singer. And he’s kind of a big deal in the video game world. He has 21 self-titled video games at Activision.

Also, he’s consistently proving how humble he is. Have you seen his tweets about not being recognized in public?  Not to mention consistently being just an all-around nice guy. 

The documentary is gearing up to be a really intimate look at the skateboarder. Co-producer Mark Duplass tells Variety that they’ve “been quietly working on this one for a few years. We are floored with the unmitigated access Tony has allowed us to his life and his fascinating relationship to the sport.”

Can’t wait til 2022 for your dose of the ‘Birdman’? Well, you won’t have to wait for much longer. He’ll make an appearance in Jackass Forever which hits theaters in October.

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